Finding Refuge in His Love

"Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name." - Psalm 91:14

As a single Christian woman, it can often feel like you’re living in a waiting room—waiting for love, for marriage, for that perfect partner who will fill the void. I remember a time when I felt that sense of longing deeply. I had friends who were settling down while I was still navigating my own journey of faith and fulfillment. In those moments of waiting, the temptation to feel overlooked or unvalued would creep in, stealing my joy.

Yet, during one particularly difficult week, I stumbled upon Psalm 91:14 and felt as though God was whispering to my heart. It became a gentle reminder that His love is a steadfast refuge—not contingent upon my marital status, but freely given as a foundational truth. This verse assures us that when we set our love on Him, He responds with promise and protection. We can rest in His presence, finding comfort and security that transcends our circumstances.

Lean into His Love

The journey of waiting can feel isolating, but that’s when we need to lean heavily into God's love. His heart is our refuge, and it’s in His presence that we discover who we truly are. When we embrace His love, we are not just passive recipients; we are active participants in His grand design.

Here are a few ways to cultivate that intimate connection in your life:

• Prayer: Make it a habit to talk to God daily. Express your hopes, fears, and desires. He loves to hear from you.

• Scripture Reading: Dive deep into the Word. Promises found in the Bible offer us solid foundations to stand upon during our waiting periods.

• Community: Engage with other believers who can encourage you. Sometimes, you need a reminder that you’re not alone in this journey.

Embracing God’s Plans

Trusting in God's timing and purpose can be challenging, especially when societal pressures pull us in different directions. But remember, He knows your heart and every desire within it. By resting in His love, you can find peace and confidence in your unique path. Instead of feeling disheartened by your single status, celebrate the freedom and growth this season offers.

Reflect on God’s assurances today. Let Psalm 91:14 be a beacon of hope reminding you that you are cherished. Your waiting is not in vain; it is part of a beautiful unfolding that will take place in your life.

As you think about His promises, I invite you to reflect: What does it mean to you that God set His love upon you? How can you actively embrace that refuge in your daily life?